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[quote=597399]David, I can’t believe that anyone here wants to ‘beat you up’ over this bad news, though honestly I’m sure that many are only sighing because it was predictable. I pray and beg you to please surround yourself with some wise brothers who will help you make good decisions based on faith and sound Biblical principles, rather than allowing yourself to get carried away by your emotions. It’s easy for you to sit there and say that you’ve learned your lesson, but if you’re honest with yourself, you’ll recognize that you made those same statements numerous times over the last couple of years. In fact at one point you talked about you and your former wife getting back together, then the next thing we knew, you announced that you were married to someone entirely different. [/quote] Kind of echoing what Chris said. I don't think anyone here will take "joy" in your condition. It seemed like your decision was rushed... because you rushed it. There were a lot of people that tried to caution you that you were rushing it. I think if you had stopped to listen to yourself, you would have realized you were rushing it, but it is hard sometimes when you get swept along by fast moving emotions. Sailors know that when the winds come up quickly and you have full sail, you really need to be mindful of the rocks below while you trim the canvas. Chalk it up to experience... try to learn from it. I hope the lesson isn't too dear.
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