Update on my father. He passed on July 30

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  • August 25, 2013 at 7:34 am #591827 Back to Top REPORT
    bm2
    bm2

    Age: 34
    Joined: 8/19/2004
    Some of the long time members may remember my post in the past about my dads battle with cancer.
    I haven’t posted a topic¬† in a while. I see a lot of the original members have left since this new forum was put up. I understand that, its a pain.

    My dad lost his fight with cancer on July 30th of this year. He put up a long 2.5¬† year hard fight but in the end the disease won. Its been hard. especially with hunting season coming up. hunting and fishing was where me and my dad spent most of our time together. Its gonna be a hard first season for me without him around. My dad wasn’t a very emotional guy. We may have hugged every now and then. But hunting and fishing is where we bonded. My dad wasn’t one to say love you but the smiles on his face when we were in the outdoors said it all. Around May his health started goin down hill more so than was in the past. I could tell the changes everyday I saw him. I think he knew what was happening by some of his comments but he didn’t openly talk about it. then in the end of June he started getting really bad and having days where he would be talking to someone that was really there and then stop that conversation and start talking to folks that weren’t there. around July 4th or 5th the dr gave us the news. He said we could just make him comfortable that he had 1-30 days left. He almost made it the full 30 days. the day before my dad went to hospice we talked about hunting and when I was gonna start planting and getting ready for season and that he needed to shoot the crossbow,¬† I sold my z7x tac to buy¬†so maybe he would atleast get to hunt some during bow season.¬†so I will be using it this year, after all this, there is no spare cash to replace¬†my compound.¬†¬†wish he would have made it to atleast get out one more time before he passed.¬†I just told him ok and let it go. At that point his mind was in and out. I didnt have the heart to tell him the truth and just said ok pop we will get to it. That was the last conversation I had with my pop. the next day he went to hospice and the day after he got there he basicly went to sleep and never really woke up and he passed 5 days later.

    guys cherish the time you have with your closest hunting buddies. expecially your family. my dad was called home at a ripe early age of 57.  sorry for the long post. Just thought It was time to let my Mathews family know.
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    August 25, 2013 at 8:42 am #591835 Back to Top REPORT
    rickym
    RickyM


    Joined: 8/4/2004
    Very sorry bud.{#emotions_dlg.mathews_crying}  My heart breaks for you. Hang in there, and there is no better place to talk to those we have lost than in a tree.{#emotions_dlg.mathews_thumbs_up}
    August 25, 2013 at 8:47 am #591836 Back to Top REPORT
    roadhazardj76
    roadhazardj76

    Age: 33
    Joined: 7/28/2010
    Location: Wisconsin
    Sorry for your loss man. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    "This isn't gonna be pretty"
    August 25, 2013 at 10:31 am #591848 Back to Top REPORT
    danf
    DanF

    Age: 44
    Joined: 1/23/2007
    Location: PA
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    Extremely sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

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    August 25, 2013 at 10:54 am #591850 Back to Top REPORT
    bootheel-boy
    bootheel boy

    Joined: 7/21/2006
    Location: S.E. Missouri
    Sorry for your loss.
    August 25, 2013 at 11:33 am #591854 Back to Top REPORT
    fats
    Fats

    Joined: 6/27/2005
    Location: In the evening shadow of oona-pa'is
    Condolences on your loss… ¬†It should give everyone pause, and reminds us of what is really important.

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    August 25, 2013 at 11:59 am #591857 Back to Top REPORT
    rsutton
    rsutton

    Joined: 11/27/2008
    Sorry for your loss it is very hard to loose someone so close!

    Lost my dad when he was 58!

    August 25, 2013 at 12:26 pm #591867 Back to Top REPORT
    the-ghost
    The Ghost

    Joined: 10/27/2010
    So sorry for the loss of your father. You will never replace him but he will live on forever in spirit and your most cherished memories. Don’t be afraid to talk to him while you are out hunting and fishing as he will always be at your side. Prayers to you and your family.
    August 25, 2013 at 6:53 pm #591899 Back to Top REPORT
    deere-farmer
    Deere Farmer

    Age: 40
    Joined: 11/12/2008
    Location: Van Wert County, Ohio
    I remember your original story. ¬†Sorry to here of you Dad’s passing back in July. ¬†Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.{#emotions_dlg.mathews_crying}
    August 25, 2013 at 8:04 pm #591936 Back to Top REPORT
    ohio-swb
    Ohio SWB

    Age: 48
    Joined: 3/1/2006
    Location: Ohio
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    sorry to hear to about lost of your father !
    he will be in better place and pain free !
    god bless you and your family {#emotions_dlg.mathews_praying}
    -}}}--------------------> shooting Helim and now switchy is retire hangin on the wall!
    August 25, 2013 at 8:18 pm #591947 Back to Top REPORT
    sticks
    sticks

    Joined: 2/5/2005
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    I’m so, so sorry to hear that, {#emotions_dlg.mathews_crying} It’s tough, I will be praying for you and your family.{#emotions_dlg.mathews_praying}
    How are you living your Dash?
    August 25, 2013 at 8:22 pm #591950 Back to Top REPORT

    UNCLE MEANIE

    Joined: 9/8/2010
    Location: New York
    there is nothing i could say or do to make you feel any better,except i am very sorry for your loss
    August 25, 2013 at 8:26 pm #591951 Back to Top REPORT
    statedriller
    statedriller

    Joined: 9/15/2006
    Location: Call me...867-5309
    Man, I’m so sorry to hear that…{#emotions_dlg.mathews_crying}

    I’ve got a sweet Prestige sitting here if you want to use it this season…¬† Just shoot me a PM if you want Brother…{#emotions_dlg.mathews_hugs}

    The end is near....
    August 25, 2013 at 9:13 pm #591959 Back to Top REPORT
    bm2
    bm2

    Age: 34
    Joined: 8/19/2004
    statedriller, I appreciate such a generous offer.
    I appreciate all the prayers from everyone.  I just thought about it and remembered that I posted several times about my
    pop when he was first diagnosed and just wanted to let anyone that was still around from the old forum have an update.
    We ust to be a lot closer on here more like a family than things are now since the forum change.

    to everyone that has sent up prayers, me and my family thank you from the bottom of our hearts. things have been tuff. they will
    be for while.  but im tryin to keep business as usual, my dad would put his foot in my rear  if I let his passing slow me down from doing
    the things we ust to do together.

    August 25, 2013 at 9:46 pm #591965 Back to Top REPORT
    bobbor76
    bobbor76

    Joined: 11/26/2004
    Location: South Dakota

    So sorry for the loss of your father. You will never replace him but he will live on forever in spirit and your most cherished memories. Don’t be afraid to talk to him while you are out hunting and fishing as he will always be at your side. Prayers to you and your family.

    My thoughts as well.  So Sorry

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